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Prostate orgasms are insane. With the right sex toy and some practice, that sweet spot of nerve endings causes you to leak precum, disconnect from reality, and experience the toe-curling knee-shaking marvel of multiple male orgasms. Yes, multiple.

That feeling when you’re about to cum? Imagine that lasting for minutes.

But which toy is best for this otherworldly orgasmic experience? As a professional male sex toy reviewer, I’ve nailed down the 21 best prostate massagers money can buy. I’ve also explained how to use prostate massagers and given you some personal tips I’ve learned.

Let’s go!

21 Best Prostate Massagers

  1. Best prostate toy for beginners – Aneros Helix Syn
  2. Best remote control prostate vibe – Lelo Hugo
  3. App-controlled prostate vibrator – Lovense Edge
  4. Mind-blowing male G spot orgasms – NJoy Pure Wand
  5. Best for experienced guys – Aneros Maximus Trident
  6. Best Large prostate massager – Aneros Progasm
  7. Rotating prostate massager – Nexus Revo
  8. Stays in easily – Fun Factory Duke
  9. Best perineum pleasure – We Vibe Vector
  10. Strong vibrating motors – Aneros Vice 2
  11. Large anal prostate plug – SquarePegToys Kidney Butt Toy
  12. “Come hither” prostate massage – Lelo Loki Wave
  13. Rollerball anus probe – Calexotics Vibrating Rollerball Anal Plug
  14. Best wooden prostate plug – NobEssence 2.0
  15. Ribbed P-spot massager – Nexus Titus
  16. Great for experienced prostate milkers – Aneros Eupho Syn
  17. Top pick for prostate play newbies – YOSPOSS Butt Plug Trainer Set
  18. Cheap anus vibrator – PALOQUETH 2 in 1 Anal Vibrator
  19. Thrusting anal sex toy – CHEVEN Thrusting Prostate Massager
  20. Cheap “come hither” anal massager – CHEVEN Wiggle Motion Prostate Massager
  21. Amazon remote control P-spot toy – Loverbeby Remote Control Prostate Massager

1. Aneros Helix Syn – Best prostate toy for beginners

Pros

  • Great for beginners or experienced users
  • Medical grade silicone
  • Firm yet flexible
  • Stays inside easily

Cons

  • Requires practice
  • Too small for some guys

Price – $69.95

If I could only recommend one men’s sex toy to you, I would recommend the Helix Syn Trident. 

Made by Aneros, who are famous for their intense prostate play toys, this device is the perfect combination of flexible-yet-firm, making it great for newbies and experienced users alike.

Just pop some water based lube onto this 4-inch toy and carefully slide it inside. Then, relax and use your pelvic floor muscles to push the tip of the toy into your P-spot. The technique takes some practice, but I’ve had a 5-minute long prostate orgasm with this toy.

I will never forget it.

2. Lovense Edge – Best adjustable prostate vibrator

Pros

  • Adjustable to various angles
  • Hit that P-spot perfectly
  • Connects to Lovense app
  • Long-distance partner control

Cons

  • Hard to get inside
  • Tricky to find the right angle

Price – $119

If you’re having a hard time hitting the right spot, maybe you should try the Lovense Edge. This vibrating massager can adjust to various angles, so with some trial-and-error you can find the perfect position to tickle your prostate gland just right.

Boasting powerful dual motors, this vibrating toy can also be controlled through the Lovense Remote app, so you or a long-distance partner can control the vibration patterns in real-time through Wi-Fi.

Ah, the world we live in.

3. Lelo Hugo – Best remote control prostate vibe

Pros

  • Remote controlled (with motion sensors!)
  • Medical-grade silicone
  • Winner of multiple Adult Industry Awards
  • Numerous vibration patterns

Cons

  • Pricier than most anal vibrators
  • Slips out easily

Price – $219

The winner of numerous awards in the sex toy industry, the Lelo Hugo is a remote controlled prostate vibe whose medium sized body makes it ideal for prostate massaging most guys.

The remote is washable and features two “SenseMotion” modes where the toy’s vibrations respond to your hand movements. It’s cool, though I’ll admit I prefer to use the toy hands free rather than shaking a remote around.

If nothing else, visit the product page to see an image of a man seductively licking a flower.

4. NJoy Pure Wand – Best metal prostate massager

Pros

  • Sturdy stainless steel
  • Can be used with any lubricant
  • Extremely intense stimulation
  • Unisex (G-spot and P-spot play)

Cons

  • Expensive
  • Very heavy (1.51 lbs)

Price – $120

The Njoy Pure Wand is an all-gender sex toy that is somewhat of a legend in the adult community.

Essentially, this is a heavy stainless steel wand with 2 balls on either end. You choose a side, lube it up, slide it in, and get massaging. It takes a lot of practice to find what works for you, but the stiff heaviness of the steel puts A LOT of pressure on your anal pleasure zone.

Because it’s steel, it’s extremely hygienic and you can even use it for temperature play. What more can we ask for?

5. Aneros Maximus Trident – Best for experienced guys

Pros

  • Cheap for the high quality
  • ABS plastic construction
  • Stiff for intense sensations
  • Use solo or with a partner

Cons

  • Arms can dig in
  • Maybe a little too stiff

Price – $55

Essentially, the Maximus Trident is a much stiffer version of the Helix. As such, this bad boy is designed for people who are fairly experienced with prostate play.

The stiff ABS plastic presses against your internal pleasure points amazingly, but it can get a little uncomfortable in certain positions, so find the one that works best for you.

Still, $55 is a steal for one of these high-quality Aneros toys!

6. Aneros Progasm – Top-rated for large prostate massagers

Pros

  • Large size
  • More intense sensations
  • Medical-grade plastic
  • Intense orgasms

Cons

  • Can fall out easily
  • Too big for some

Price – $59.95

Designed for experienced users, the Progasm is one of the largest prostate stimulation devices you’ll find on this list. With 4.2 inches of insertable length and 1.25 inches of head width, this is certainly no newbie anal plug.

This large men’s sex toy is made from medical-grade plastic which is nice and stiff, though it has a tendency to fall out, so be careful.

7. Nexus Revo – Best rotating prostate massager

Pros

  • 6.25 inches of girth
  • 5 inches of length
  • Sold on LoveHoney.com
  • Rotating head

Cons

  • Expensive
  • Hard to get inside

Price – $199.99

If you’re looking for size, you got it here. The hefty toy has a whopping 6.25 inches of girth and 5 inches of insertable length, making it one of the biggest toys on this list.

What’s more, it comes with a remote and a rotating head, so it perfectly massages that sweet spot inside your anus. If you just wanna lie back and have a toy do all the work for you, I recommend this bad boy.

It’s also sold on LoveHoney com, who have great user reviews and guarantee discreet packaging and credit card statements. No one knows who “LH Trading” is.

8. Fun Factory Duke – Stays in most easily

Pros

  • Made in Germany
  • 5 vibration settings
  • Easy to insert
  • Unique shape

Cons

  • Shape limits positions
  • Pricey

Price – $99.99

Made by German sex toy giants Fun Factory, the Duke is a uniquely shaped vibrating butt plug that’s designed to stimulate the P-spot and stay in place easily.

With 5 vibration patterns to explore, this toy is great for sex, masturbation, blowjobs, and more! I just wish it wasn’t that awful swampy blue-green color that Fun Factory loves to use.

9. We Vibe Vector – Best perineum pleasure

Pros

  • Dedicated 4-button remote
  • Use solo or with a partner
  • Whisper-quiet vibrations
  • Intense perineum stimulation

Cons

  • Expensive
  • Connectivity issues with app

Price – $139

Tickling your perineum (aka the “taint” or “gooch”) is a brilliant way to amp up prostate stimulation because it massages the area externally.

The WeVibe Vector has particularly strong perineum vibrations, so it’s one of the best sex toys for people who love that combination of internal and external anal pleasure.

Count me in!

10. Aneros Vice 2 – Strong vibrating motors

Pros

  • 18 patterns & 4 speeds
  • 4.4 inches of insertable length
  • Dedicated remote
  • USB rechargeable battery

Cons

  • Expensive
  • Not the best shape

Price – $149.95

The only vibrating prostate massager that Aneros currently make, the Vice 2 comes with a dedicated remote that lets you flick through the 72 pleasure settings with ease.

At 4.4 inches long, this is also a very decent size, and the velvety silicone exterior feels sexy and luxurious. It’s like the Egyptian Cotton of sex toys.

11. SquarePegToys Kidney Prostate Stimulator – Huge prostate plug

Pros

  • Unique shape
  • 6 inches of insertable length
  • Comfortable flared base
  • Easy to clean

Cons

  • Not the sexiest design
  • Too big for some

Price – $69

To be clear, this isn’t a kidney stimulator… it’s a large butt plug that looks like a kidney bean. Why would you choose a kidney bean to model your sex toy from? I have no idea. It looks awful.

Aesthetics aside, this large butt plug for men packs quite a punch, with 6 inches of insertable length and 2.22 inches of width! It might not look sexy, but it’s one of the best men’s butt plugs I’ve ever seen.

12. Lelo Loki Wave – Best “Come hither” prostate massage

Pros

  • Unique “come hither” motion
  • 10 vibration patterns
  • 100% waterproof
  • Feels like a partner fingering you

Cons

  • Falls out easily
  • Very pricey

Price – $219

Lelo com has several editions of prostate massager, but this one is definitely the most unique. Designed to produce an erotic “come hither” motion, this device makes it feel like someone is giving you a sexy internal massage with their fingers.

100% waterproof, you can take this into the bath or shower for some wet fun, whether you’re flying solo or with a partner. My only complaint? The “come hither” motion can make the Loki Wave slide out your butt if you’re not careful… ironically making it “go away”.

13. Calexotics RollerBall Vibrating Anal Probe – Rollerball anus probe

Pros

  • Unique rolling tip
  • Ribbed shaft design
  • 12 vibration patterns
  • 100% waterproof

Cons

  • Vibration modes aren’t the best
  • Battery life a little short

Price – $35.99

The cool thing about this great toy is the rolling tip – it’s certainly a unique experience and an orgasm like I’ve never felt before!

With 12 vibration patterns and a very decent price, this would be a brilliant anal probe to try if you’re relatively new to prostate orgasm play.

As Limp Bizkit so eloquently said – keep rollin’ rollin’ rollin’ rollin’ rollin.

14. Nobessence Romp 2.0 Hardwood Prostate Massager – Best wooden prostate toy

Pros

  • Unique hardwood construction
  • Non-porous surface
  • 3.6 inches insertable length
  • Use solo or with a partner

Cons

  • Pricey
  • Strange shape

Price – $115

We’ve had anal toys made from silicone, plastic, and stainless steel… but what about wood? 

Yes, this wooden butt plug is perfectly safe to use, designed with a non-porous surface to keep bacteria at bay.

Though this strangely shaped butt plug won’t be to everybody’s tastes, it’s certainly one of the more… artistic items on this list. If you don’t put it in your ass, maybe put it on your mantelpiece?

15. Nexus Titus Prostate Massager – Ribbed P spot massager

Pros

  • Ribbed shaft feels amazing
  • 3.94 inches insertable length
  • Unique pebble shaped head
  • Body safe material

Cons

  • Requires practice
  • Base is an unusual shape

Price – $49.99

The Nexus Titus is a Helix-style anal massager that requires you to contract your sphincter and pelvic floor muscles to feel the pleasure.

The ribbed shaft adds an extra layer of stimulation that you just don’t get from other toys on this list. It also has a really nice perineum arm that rubs you up in all the right ways.

16. Aneros Eupho Syn Trident – Great for experienced prostate milkers

Pros

  • Velvety soft silicone
  • 4.2 inches of depth
  • Loved by experienced users
  • Better than most anal vibrators

Cons

  • Requires practice
  • Doesn’t fit all butts!

Price – $69.95

A long-time favorite of prosate milking enthusiasts, the Eupho Syn Trident features a whopping 4.2 inches of length, helping this medical-grade silicone massager reach even the deepest anal nerve endings.

Pop on some water-based lubricant and strap in for a wild ride – your body won’t know what hit it when you’re leaking fluid and shaking all over the bed in pleasure.

17. YOSPOSS Butt Plug Trainer Kit – Best for anal play newbies

Pros

  • Available on Amazon
  • Set of 3 butt plugs
  • Increasing length & girth
  • Wear all day

Cons

  • Not the sturdiest
  • Shipping delays

Price – $16.99

One of the few decent sex toys available on Amazon, this set of 3 butt plugs is perfect for an anal play beginner who need to acquaint themselves with the feeling of something being inside their ass.

Featuring a T-bar flared base, these silicone butt plugs increase in size from 3 inches to 3.75 inches and 4.5 inches, allowing you to move up at your own pace. You can wear them solo, with a partner, or even wear them discreetly in public!

18. PALOQUETH 2 in 1 Anal Vibrator – Best cheap prosate massager

Pros

  • Available on Amazon
  • 3 motors
  • Uses taps and vibrations
  • 24 vibration modes

Cons

  • Slips out easily
  • Short battery life

Price – $35.69

PALOQUETH are great at making cheap sex toys, even if they’re not always the highest quality. What’s more, they’re also available on Amazon, which is convenient when you want your adult products delivered pronto on that sweet Prime membership.

This cheap anus vibrator has 3 motors – 2 which vibrate, and 1 which “taps” your sweet spot, creating a new kind of sensation. This can lead to a very intense orgasm, as vibrations tend to “numb” the P-spot after a while in more conventional vibrators like the Lelo Billy or Loki.

Just make sure you don’t tap out! Get it? You’re welcome.

19. CHEVEN Thrusting Prostate Massager – Thrusting anal sex toy

Pros

  • Thrusting motion
  • Heating function
  • Silicone construction
  • Waterproof

Cons

  • 3 speeds isn’t many
  • Shipping delays

Price – $42.99

If you’re a gay man or you just happen to enjoy anal sex, then this prostate massager could be perfect for you. The unique “thrusting” motor feels a little bit like getting fucked, which I personally enjoyed.

The product also comes with a heating element, which I must admit I don’t personally understand. Do butts experience pleasure from being warm? Mine doesn’t… the enigma continues.

20. CHEVEN Wiggle Motion Prostate Massager – Inexpensive “come hither” anal massager

Pros

  • “Come hither” motion
  • Heating element
  • 7 vibration modes
  • 3 wiggle modes

Cons

  • Can fall out easily
  • Remote can be faulty

Price – $39.99

A much cheaper version of the “come hither” massager found on Lelo.com, the CHEVEN “wiggle motion” prostate massager is designed for men who prefer stroking motions to vibrations.

Nonetheless, this device does also come with 7 vibration modes and 3 different wiggle settings so you can really tailor-make your orgasm. It also has the same “heating element” that CHEVEN likes to put in their products for some reason.

Enjoy your… warm orgasm.

21. Loverbeby Remote Control Prostate Massager – Amazon remote control P-spot toy

Pros

  • Available on Amazon
  • 9 vibration settings
  • Stimulate multiple pleasure zones
  • USB rechargeable

Cons

  • Too small for some
  • Doesn’t fit all guys comfortably

Price – $27.98

Another one of the cheap prostate massager products available on Amazon, this is one of the most precise male sex toys I’ve ever come across (…get it?).

This vibrating anal device comes with specific sections to stimulate the perineum, urethra, penis, and testicles. Its aspirations put some of these other prostate massagers to shame, but bear in mind that it doesn’t fit a lot of guys comfortably.

Maybe get this product if you’re on the shorter side.

How to Use Prostate Massagers

Okay, so we’ve taken a look at the best prostate massagers, but how do you actually use them?

Locating the prostate

The prostate gland is located approximately 2-3 inches inside the anus on the anterior (front) side of your body. This walnut-sized gland is close to the bladder, so stimulating it can sometimes feel like you need to pee at first.

Don’t worry, you get used to it.

Go inside your butt and then curve upwards towards your belly. Always use plenty of lube (the anus doesn’t self lubricate!) and consider douching/cleaning your anus beforehand. If you can feel a walnut-sized lump, you’ve probably found the prostate.

Now you know how to find the prostate, let’s look at the 2 main types of prostate massager:

Vibrating Prostate Massagers

This is the easiest type of prostate massager to use.

These toys might come with a removable bullet vibe or they might have built-in vibration motors. Usually used by men who are less experienced in anal play, these massagers are great for discovering the pleasure that anal stimulation can bring about:

  1. Lube up your ass and the product
  2. Insert the device slowly so that the shaft curves toward your belly button
  3. Relax and allow your ass to get used to the feeling of the device inside you
  4. Turn on the vibrations, starting with the slower settings
  5. Relax your muscles and avoid the temptation to tense up
  6. Explore more powerful vibrations as you get used to the feelings
  7. Enjoy!

Non-Vibrating Prostate Massagers

Non-vibrating prostate massagers are actually much more intense than their vibrating counterparts… when you learn how to use them.

This type of toy is what got me interested in anal stimulation in the first place – I saw a video of a guy shaking all over his bed having a hands-free Aneros “Super Orgasm” and I was totally fascinated.

“How can I wield such extreme orgasmic power?” I pondered.

Using these “manual” anal pleasure products definitely takes more practice and technique, but I recommend it 100%. They’re the key to unlocking next-level orgasms:

  1. Lubricate your butt and the product
  2. Insert the device slowly so it curves up towards your belly
  3. Relax and allow your body to “accept” the toys presence
  4. Gently contract your sphincter and pelvic floor muscles (you should feel your balls raise slightly)
  5. Hold this contraction for 30+ seconds until the muscles start to “tremble”
  6. Allow good feelings to wash over you and repeat contractions as necessary
  7. Enjoy hours of pleasure!

Now, this stuff is not easy. It took me months of practice before I had a Super Orgasm, but my God, it’s worth the wait. Make sure that you’re super relaxed and in-the-mood before doing this – it’s more about relaxation that anything else.

If you don’t know what to expect, watch a video of someone having a prostate orgasm with one of these toys. You’ll be aroused, trust me.

7 Tips For Prostate Milking

Don’t worry if you’re struggling with these prostate toys at first – a lot of men just aren’t used to this internal pleasure. 

Here are some tips to maximize your experience and have an amazing orgasm:

    1. Weed – Smoke weed if it’s legal. You’ll naturally be more relaxed and aroused!
    2. Poppers – Sniff poppers if they’re legal. Poppers are great for relaxing your anal muscles, which you might be clenching subconsciously
    3. Breathing – Take slow, deep breaths. Treat it like mindfulness meditation.
    4. Positions – Try different positions (lying down, doggy style, sitting, etc.) Some men find that one position works better than the others for hitting that sweet spot
    5. Environment – Make sure you’re in a relaxed environment where you won’t be disturbed or interrupted
    6. Nipples – Play with your nipples to help keep yourself aroused during your session.
    7. Relax – Anal pleasure is all about relaxation, which is hard to do with a foreign object shoved up your butt. Take it slow, breathe deeply, and try meditation techniques to fully relax. Some people find that listening to Binaural Beats or sexy recordings like GoneWildAudio helps too.
    8. Use other toys – Add in some of the best male sex toys that will masturbate you hands free as you stimulate your prostate.

 

 

What’s the Best Prostate Massager Toy?

So, what’s the best product for prostate massage? Well, these toys can be divided into 2 main types – vibrating and non-vibrating.

For vibrating, I’d recommend the Lelo Hugo for sure. This well-sized silicone prostate massager comes with multiple stimulation modes, dual motors, and even a dedicated remote with built-in sensors for real-time control.

If you want non-vibrating, nothing can beat Aneros’s Helix Syn Trident. It’s #1 on this list for a reason – it once made me have a continuous orgasm for 5 minutes. I still remember it vividly to this day.

Whatever you decide to try, I hope you find the fit that’s right for you. Welcome to next-level orgasms!