BJs aren't my thang. Can you recommend anything to help me get in the mood and get him off?

Well, I think that blowjobs are fun, but that's just me. In my mind, they are a great way to service my partner, yet knowing that I am in total control of his pleasure is a BIG turn on for me. 

BJs can be an act in themselves, or they can be a part of foreplay. If you're not very into them, I would ask why? Without knowing your answer, I would suggest you consider the fact that you don't have to commit to an entire BJ – just imagine that you're getting him ready for for the main course!

You can also find some sweet tasting edible lube (I love the cherry flavors) and turn him into a tasty treat if it helps.

Image: Tina Phillips.

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