May Kalinu, Luxury Dating Coach and Matchmaker

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Her advice: “Prioritize self-awareness and embrace the mantra, ‘Spoil Yourself First.’ Understand and value yourself before entering the dating world; it attracts the right partners and sets the tone for genuine relationships. While modern lives can trivialize dating, see it as a luxurious journey. Slow down and connect with those aligned with your aspirations. Each date is a self-discovery opportunity. Particularly for people of color, revel in your unique identity. Authenticity remains paramount; amidst media’s influence, true connections are distinctive. Remember, the journey’s lessons are the heart of love.” – May Kalinu, Spoiled Girl™

Bio: May Kalinu – Dating Coach & Matchmaker, teaches luxury dating to successful men and women by building confidence and encouraging them to “Spoil Yourself First” or to get to know themselves first. May Kalinu, or Spoiled Girl™, specializes in providing a full-service luxury matchmaking experience for time-conscious, successful, and affluent clientele.  

May’s dating service includes coaching, prospect searching, date organizing, date follow-up, and client communication. May’s audience appreciates her refreshing take on dating through the lens of a woman of color. May is fast becoming a sought-after coach and media darling, having been featured on Vice’s i-D, Cosmopolitan, Buzzfeed, and on Tom Segura’s Podcast.  Follow @maykalinu