Too few share details of performing a proper blowjob, or the horror stories (or the legendary tales), that result from practice. It's only appropriate to give my two cents because I'm one of the guys who can offer tips on both ends of the dick-sucking spectrum.

I lost my virginity before I received my first blow job. And for having been quite open in my sexual exploitations and adventures, I've only just learned the magic of “road head.” What a way to bring in the New Year it was!

I have always been a fan of using my mouth, and have used it more than I have my own cock. But, another slightly humorous fact, I'm not the biggest fan of head. I love a great BJ just as much as the next guy, but I've only come twice. And the bad ones have more than outblown out the good ones.

There are just as many techniques as there are people to perform them because we all try something a little different, from the overly enthusiastic Face Fuck to the Lazy Lick.

Every guy is different in how he wants it: Some of us are so sensitive on the head of our cocks that it borders on painful and kills the experience. Others, if you were to lick it twice, would erupt like Old Faithful. And the Kung-fu twist, like you're trying to open a jar of pickles, may not be the best experience for anyone.

Please, love our dick and it'll love you too.

I have a constant epic battle with my own cock. I'm horny all the time, and I can be hard in moment's notice. However I sometimes have no feeling, or am too sensitive, and I happen to be quite ticklish in most of the area surrounding the playground in my pants.

I cannot express this turmoil enough. With me, you have to own my dick. You can't be light with it, but while I need you to use force with it, you can't overdo it or else disaster strikes.

Easier said than done. All I can tell ya is listen to your partner.

And if your ears aren't working, here are two queues that will help you give good head and determine when the good head goes bad.

  • If he's not hard, or is losing his hard on, back off. No cock gets softer before it cums.
  • If it's hurting your mouth, it's hurting his dick.

    • My dick is perfectly designed to be deep-throated [EDITOR'S NOTE: That's what they ALL say…], in the 69 position ONLY. [EDITOR'S NOTE: Oh.] I curve up a little, which means I hit the roof of your mouth when you're lying on my legs or sitting on your knees.

    Taking me down your throat any other way doesn't feel good for either one of us.

    And now for some basic bullet points to take note of on the subject of dick sucking:law logo2x b

    • We've all seen you look at the dick when you pull it out to grab a breath of air. If it gets smaller or softer, chances are your facial expression might not be giving the best impression. We want you to have just as much fun giving us head as you want us to enjoy getting it.
    • Tip: If you hate giving it, don't. If you feel like you really want to go down, do it, but for only as long as you want. Many of us get soft when we sense you're treating the blowjob as a chore.
    • Yes, many, many guys would rather have a BJ than fuck (ridiculous), but we easily can tell the difference between those that are desired and those that are merely dutifully done.
    • I do know how sore your jaw gets. I do know what it's like to choke on it a little. But I especially know when it's good. Surprise us.
    • And please remember: Never go to the asshole without warning. That will never end well. I promise.

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