Jon Stojan
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For over six decades, the life of Roxanne M. Wiltshire revolved around internal identity struggles. Born in the wrong body, she got tangled up in a lifelong self-discovery journey filled with emotional turmoil and the trauma of living inauthentically for too long. Ready to share her inspiring story – from a confused boy to a beautiful woman in her roaring 60s – Roxanne authored Roxy – A Woman’s Journey Assigned Male at Birth.
Entrenched across the 57 pages is an impactful narrative that sheds light on the challenges of gender distortion. Through raw storytelling and real-life anecdotes, Roxanne illuminates the transsexual experience, showcasing the power of finding one’s true essence and choosing happiness over meeting societal expectations. With a goal of provoking reflection and helping others break the shackles of being stuck in the wrong body, Roxanne’s literary contribution acts as the light at the end of the tunnel, filling readers’ hearts with hope and self-love.
What sparked the concept of Roxy were the moments of epiphany and the sense of empowerment Roxanne felt during therapy. There, encouraged to journal and verbalize thoughts daily, she quickly realized the healing properties of storytelling. Over time, her journaling passion transformed into a life mission, igniting the writing process.
From sharing her uncensored story of growing up as a girl in a boy’s body to demystifying the misconceptions of the LGBTQ+ community and shattering the limiting impact of labeling, Roxy is more than a compelling memoir; it is a treasure trove of insights helping readers navigate the nuanced territory of transitioning. In the LGBTQ and Transgender Community chapter, Roxanne explores the toxic dynamics of an environment that was created to provide solace to non-binary, non-heteronormative individuals, now often causing more harm and confusion.
Whether for those grappling with the daunting reality of bodies and minds not aligning or those who want to support a loved one going through a transition, Roxy holds the key to a profound understanding of this unique and rewarding journey.
For Roxanne, the writing process was evocative of therapy, freeing her heart and soul from past traumas and helping her overcome the innate challenges of transformative change. “I have lost many people along the way. Friends who couldn’t accept what I was doing or loved ones who couldn’t bear losing the person they once knew – the person who was never truly me. Sometimes, the road to self-discovery is a lonely one, but the sense of liberty awaiting at the end is worth all the obstacles along the way,” shares Roxanne. “After decades of struggling, my life is finally centered around inner peace and serenity. Roxy is my way of helping others achieve the same state of happiness.”
Looking into the future, Roxanne predicts the launch of her next book in 2025. Her newest work will revolve around the psychological impact of isolation and the sense of loneliness many experience during their transition. There, she will provide science- and research-backed insights that help readers better understand this journey and alleviate the mental strain of having to choose between living life in harmony or living life surrounded by loved ones.
Roxy – A Woman’s Journey Assigned Male At Birth enlightens a realm as unique as every person who reads it. Inspired by her heart and written by life, the book opens the doors to profound world understanding, promoting a universe of self-love, respect, and authenticity.
Perhaps what best describes Roxanne’s mission is the final message of her memoir:
In my heart, I carry the belief that everyone deserves respect. If we extend respect to every person we cross paths with, it is returned to us. But above all, the most vital lesson I’ve learned is to respect and love yourself. In this journey of self-discovery, I’ve learned, grown, and embraced who I truly am. I hope that my story can inspire others to not only accept people like me but also to find their truth and live it. Here’s to living happily, honestly, and openly, celebrating every new day as a promise of better things to come.