So basically, the guy I'm seeing refuses to give me oral sex, for reasons unclear. Of course, he expects and accepts all kinds of oral attention from me. This is unacceptable. Is it worth trying to work with him on this?

It seems that you have already accepted the relationship as it is by giving him oral sex without requesting it back. Silly girl! You will always be dissatisfied with your sex life with him, so give him an ultimatum by saying, “I love getting oral sex as much as I like giving it.” If he doesn't give it to you then, dump him.

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