Lucubration: Spice It Up

What's your favorite way to add "spice" in the bedroom? Why?

Personally, I enjoy bringing another girl or couple into the mix. Why? Well, because I love the idea of group sex and orgies... but that's not for everyone.

I think a great way for couples to add some spice in the bedroom is to have "theme" nights. Play dress up! Act out scenarios, and use props. Be that sexy bad school girl getting a spanking in the principal's office.

Even if it feels a little silly at first, get into the role! This is where some inventive dirty talk can really come into play. 

You can also find adult videos that go along with your chosen theme. I'm happy to give you recommendations!

Image: Salvatore Vuono.

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