Lucubration: In the Mood?
What's the most common relationship question that women ask you? How do you respond?
“Why don't I feel like having sex?” is the most common question women ask me. I tell women that they need to be sexually stimulated or aroused before they'll feel like having sex. Many women and their partners believe that they should spontaneously be in the mood for sex. When they're not, they feel like something is wrong with them. Sometimes things may be wrong for them, such as the relationship, unsatisfying sex or their physical or emotional health. However, most women do feel like having sex once they become aroused via seduction, emotional or physical sexual stimulation.
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