- DEAR FRIENDS WHO SLEEP TILL NOON: ItÃ¢ÂÂs not that we donÃ¢ÂÂt love it when you call us at 5 p.m. on weekdays to ask us what weÃ¢ÂÂre doing for lunch. WeÃ¢ÂÂve endured, and even enjoyed, your tales of spending the day at the library, embracing jury duty, and really getting to know your cat on a deeper level. Though we do take your threats of living in your car seriously, the time has come to tell you something you need to hear: Your poverty is not cute anymore. When you first started draining your 401K, it seemed almost madcap and devil-may-care. But you were in your early 30s. Now that youÃ¢ÂÂre mid-middle-aged,your slacker lifestyle is just embarrassing. And yes, weÃ¢ÂÂre a little worried that you might become a burden on us. We suggest you set your alarm Ã¢ÂÂ weÃ¢ÂÂll loan you ours if youÃ¢ÂÂve sold yours Ã¢ÂÂ for the Los Angeles Career Fair. Renaissance Los Angeles Airport Hotel, 9620 Airport Blvd.; Mon., Feb. 7, 11 a.m.-2 p.m.; free (it better be). (310) 642-1111. Ã¢ÂÂL.M.