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He's in good hands — John drives him to appointments and the library, while Linda is ready with a listening ear and keeps the refrigerator stocked. "They told me I could stay," Kevin says. He sounds ashamed to accept their help. "I didn't ask."

He never names the biggest failure in his upbringing, his mother. "One day, I asked him what he wanted to drink in the morning," Linda says. "And he goes, 'Mrs. Campbell, when I grew up, my mother never even had milk in the refrigerator for us.'

"Yet she went and ran into a car and came up with $15,000 cash to pay that," Linda Campbell says. Her eyes are pleading as she asks, baffled, "How do you do that and never give your children milk?"

Kevin doesn't say whether his mother was on the list of people he called in desperation after being "emancipated." At the time, he turned to his mother's former boyfriend, a man he calls his stepfather. He stayed with the man for a short time but, thanks to his job at the plastics factory, soon got his first apartment. He was making progress.

But the coalescence of trouble at school, physical health problems, disintegrating relationships and overwhelming grief in the wake of his friend's suicide dragged him down into a dark place.

"When he lived on his own and he became homeless again, I think he lost a lot of faith," says Stacy Peters. After Kevin missed a few of the class meetings due to the flu, "He came in early, he made it up, he did his work — usually, when people miss class I dock them," Peters says. "But Kevin was different."

He's a regular at the library, nearly fluent in Japanese, and is advanced in C++, Python and JavaScript programming. He has studied Latin, and plays drums and guitar, though he insists he's no good.

Kevin has learned all this on his own. "Lone wolf," he says with a smirk.

While many foster kids pushed out of the system are doomed to low wages and menial labor, Kevin is taking steps to one day become a medical researcher. He will begin classes at Los Angeles City College on Feb. 4 — retaking math he failed during his downward spiral at Rio Hondo. He's saved money for books by working construction. "I don't think there was ever a doubt in my mind that I wouldn't make it," he says.

"He might try for some on-campus work, too — you know, he worked as a math tutor at Rio," John Campbell says, pride edging into his low, gravelly voice.

Months after the "couple days" that Kevin was supposed to stay, the Campbells spent the holidays with their temporary son.

John says that Kevin "takes up space at our house, but we're used to that. It's not good for him, though — he needs to branch out. But he's feeling good about going back to school." He thinks Kevin will thrive.

Kevin's story is far from the worst-case scenario among L.A.'s thousands of former foster kids. Instead he's trapped in limbo, relying on others while learning to stand on his own. As foreign as the concept of family support might be to him, the Campbells are in it for the long haul. "We told Kevin, 'We're gonna see you to the finish,' " Linda says. "Whatever that is."

Reach the writer at catherine.s.green@gmail.com.

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nevermind027
nevermind027

There are transitional housing programs (i.e., service former foster/probation 18-21 year old youth) that provide housing, food and some are rent free in Los Angeles, Pasadena and San Gabriel Valley Area.  I am glad the article brought light to the issue. On the flipside, there are many resources, as noted by another reader below (i.e., jstewart2). AB-12 being a new addition. In terms of housing programs, there are Sycamores, HFLF/Athena, DFCS' THP, DCFS' THP+, Hillview, Step Out and Hillsides to name a few.

jstewart2
jstewart2 moderator editor

The following Letter to the Editor did not make it into this week's print edition of LA Weekly:

Thank you for your story on Kevin. For our transition-aged foster youth, DCFS & Probation have an array of supportive services. For example, many of our youth remain in foster care or transitional housing after the age of 18. If you know a former foster youth, like Kevin, in need of supportive services, please refer him or her to ilponline.org or contact our foster youth ombudsman at (877) 694-5741.

Armand Montiel

Los Angeles County DCFS Public Affairs Director

jstewart2
jstewart2 moderator editor

Hi fongoolioso, you are right, AB 12, mentioned in the story and signed by Schwarzenegger in 2010, provides welfare to these kids for a few years -- AFDC and other -- when they "age-out" at age 18. Although there is not nearly enough money to help all the kids, the law is considered a major step forward by childrens rights groups. Information is hard to come by on whether it is working. It will take a few years to see solid data. In Kevin's case he chose not to apply because he was fed up with being a ward of the state. As the story explains, he decided to take his chances with this unusually generous family. --Jill Stewart, LA Weekly managing editor

andreihp42
andreihp42 topcommenter

"Fewer than 1 percent of former foster kids will graduate from college"- this is sick.

fongoolioso
fongoolioso

I thought a bill was passed recently that allows kids to stay in the system if they choose until age 21?

spokentruth88
spokentruth88

God has placed angels like Linda and John Campbell into this young man's life.  Although, it seems Kevin is the exception, to have the generous help offered by the Campbells'. I am sure this does not apply to the greater population of Foster youth in this age group. There should be a program designed for a Foster Transition Program specifically for the 18-26 year old Foster youth.  If  the Department of Children and Family Services could work closely with the Housing Urban Planning (HUD) as well as with the Department of Social Services(Welfare Dept) to share their resources to develop a well rounded program to help these Foster Youths transition would be great.  If this would result to be too difficult they could contract out services to non-profits in order to provide these services.

 
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