Not bad, but you just use http://getlaid.us/
it helps me to find some better local picks than CL...
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A zipless fuck, with wireless ease. That's the promise of the "Casual Encounters" section of Craigslist. There are newer, shinier, more feature-laden places to go searching for slutdom, of course, but the list of Craig endures.
Although the Internet is teeming with porn, porn is about watching. Personals are about doing. Casual Encounters gives form and encouragement to your basest desires — the ones in which you hit it and quit, in which you put in your junk but not your time — leaving you free immediately afterward to get back to Farmville or eBaum's World or whatever more important thing you were doing when you got distracted by the urge and clicked on m4m, or w4m, or mm4ts, mw4mw, w4mm, t4mw or maybe mw4t.
What you might have told yourself at the start was just idle curiosity can easily morph into enthusiastic participation as the site's clean, simple interface leads you into the dirty, complicated belief that yours is a world awash in limitless sexual possibilities.
On Craigslist, you're surrounded not only by skeevy creeps and blurry penis photos but by oats-sowing bi-curious college girls; self-described "nice guys" with jobs and proper grammar and everything; lonely, MILFy housewives who need just a bit more attention and cunnilingus than they're currently getting.
Amid the comical weirdos are people who say terribly normal-sounding things, like, "I am a 27-year-old woman, just looking for a nice stud that isn't into the drama and bullshit. Please be able to carry on a conversation and have a sense of humor if you reply to this." Or, "Looking for that special gal no strings attached, like to have intimate talks be straightforward who is a good listener knows what she wants and enjoys a good massage not afraid to go all the way."
Craigslist, with its insistently plain-wrap appearance, is the lowest-commitment option in an already low-commitment endeavor, so Casual Encounters' setup achieves a sort of harmonious equilibrium with the mindset of its users. There's no registration, no fees, no pop-ups, no banners. Just lines and lines of ads, listing the multitudes of people willing to fuck you.
But is it really that easy?
L.A. Weekly followed four people, one from each of the four major categories — w4m, m4w, w4w, m4m — in their search for that elusive, NSA encounter.
M4W: A Seller's Market
"Looking for a cute girl, age 20-50, for a fun, casual sexual encounter. And, yes, I will spank you. Nothing crazy. I don't have whips or a dungeon. I don't humiliate. Just my open hand. (And a pair of handcuffs.) I'm a handsome guy, 40, 5 feet 11 inches, nice eyes, beard, a little burly, work out 3-4 times per week, and I clean up real nice, as they say. Send a photo, I'll send you mine."
Terence's spanking offer might have narrowed the field, but then again, the field is always narrow for men who are seeking women, and even ads that aren't seeking anything exotic tend not to get a lot of replies. In the personals, it's women who run the show.
Terence received a whopping total of nine responses. Of those, eight were spam. These were identifiable by their extremely generic nature, typically something like, "Hey I liked your ad. I'm on Yahoo Messenger right now! Send me a message at HotGirl2271!" Replying to these inevitably leads the user to a paid porn site.
But one smelled like it might be human: "Hi! could you please send few pics? clearly showing your face and body? thanks! Debra." This was accompanied by a sunlit photo of an attractive blonde with a perky smile.
Cautiously optimistic, Terence sent a response, including a picture. The blonde replied, "Thanks for the pic ... i thought you would look younger. do you have other pics?"
"What was I supposed to say to that?" Terence asks, his eyes rolling skyward with exasperation. Already realizing odds were against him, Terence threw in the towel, retorting, "Sorry, honey, that's as young as I get."
When asked why he didn't work particularly hard to continue the established contact, by, say, inviting the blonde out for coffee, Terence gripes, "I'm fucking sick of 'coffee.' I can't tell you how much fucking 'coffee' I've had through all the Internet dating sites I've been on over the years. The only thing I'd meet up for is if she wants to take her clothes off today."
The hard lesson most men learn on Craigslist: Because they outnumber women by about 20 to 1 on Casual Encounters, men aren't something to be desired. They're something to be weeded out — even guys like Terence, who are attractive and well-educated.
Would he try Craigslist again?
"I might read women's ads, but placing my own was a total waste of time."
"No two-minute wonders need apply. Very youthful, very curvy 41-year-old in Santa Monica seeks very youthful, preferably young, attractive baby-faced man for casual encounters (hopefully plural!). By the way, replies without pics will not be considered. Thanks!"
Not bad, but you just use http://getlaid.us/
it helps me to find some better local picks than CL...
As this article testifies, the Internet has done little or nothing to help hetero men find no-strings-attached free sex because the vast majority of hetero women are not into that lifestyle. A straight guy's chances of finding casual sex online are probably worse than in bars -- which are also overrated because who wants to watch a film or TV show where a guy strikes out in a bar and has to go home and jerk off ? Sadly, life is only like "Sex in the City" if you have a vagina or are attracted to men. I don't care how good-looking or how big a hetero guy's penis is, unless he's rich and/or famous he's eventually going to realize that he's going to have to break the law like I did (in California at least) and hire prostitutes if he wants to have sex with many women. I'm in my 50s and have had intercourse with hundreds of women, but I can count the ones I didn't pay for outright on one hand (and I'm not overweight or below-average in looks or height).
Interesting article! London UK male here, mid 30's, very high drive and open tendencies (damn, starting to sound like one of the more boring ads now!)
Right, a bit of advice - set up a separate email address simply for craigslist, especially men, due to the overwhelming amount of spam replies purveying yet another fake dating site. Be very sure when sending pictures that the recipient is genuine - something like a rough location in your city or a keyword to be used in their reply usually weeds out the scammers from the shaggers! The scammers will steal the pictures, especially from ladies, and use them to set up fake profiles on their fake dating sites.
Don't be downhearted if you do not get a reply, especially men, as the man/woman ration is very high. Think about it - in the real world the men typically make the first move.
Ok, I am currently having a casual thing with a girl a bit younger than me and it is pretty damn good from both sides (her ad). We are looking for a 3some. 3 weeks ago I linked up with a rather wealthy couple and gave a bit of head to the Sierra Leonian woman while her man watched (their ad). Unfortunately they took a bit too much nose powder and in a rare move so did I! Was a fun night though!
I have met two transsexuals and had a few fun encounters with them (their ads). A few years back I had a long term friends with benefits with a slightly older secondary school teacher (her ad). I have also done it will a small number of guys (some my ad, some theirs) - I enjoyed it a lot but would never want a boyfriend!!! Years back I met someone for no strings, (my ad), we didn't have sex but are still very good friends and laugh at how we met!
Met someone for a date at the end of last year (my ad) we got on perfectly (her words), unfortunately we are the same height and she likes guys much much taller (boo hoo!). Another secondary school teacher came to mine (my ad), we didn't have sex, I think she would have eaten me alive to be honest!!!
Have been looking for a relationship with a bit of an unusual twist, nothing perverted but something I might get slapped for if I asked a stranger in a chat up line. Met a girl for a drink on this one (my ad), we chat on the phone and like each other but both too busy to take a partnership further as of yet.
I'm a white guy and am only attracted to black girls/guys which narrows my candidates a little but I have had quite a bit of fun. I try to be genuine in my intentions, but the list works if you can handle a bit of rejection and a sift through the junk. Not gonna tell you my secret though, I'm an ok looker but it takes a bit more than just being tall, big, wealthy and successful to connect here you know! ;)
Have a look, have fun, and be bloody conscious out there!
SOMEONE I AM AN AQUAINTANCE WITH POSTED A PHOTO OF ME WITHOUT MY KNOWLEDGE. I HAVE NO IDEA WHERE ON CRAIG'S LIST HE POSTED IT. I HAVE AN EVIL X FATHER IN LAW WHOM SENT ME AN EMAIL IN REFERNCE TO IT BUT OF COURSE, WITH NO REFERNCE TO THE DIRECT LINK. IS THERE ANY WAY TO FIND IT?I READ UP ON THIS AND IT IS ILLEGAL.
If you are looking for a fun time tonight then you may want to try out find sex. This website has lots of men and women who just want to hook up. When you get started with the site you can create a personal profile to let everyone know what you are all about. http://www.findsex.org/findsex...
I posted in the w4m casual encounters section and got flagged later that day. My platonic post was also flagged, though that one lasted 2 days. Both posts had pics and had a written description of myself, and what I was looking for.
For the nsa post, I got a few interesting replies but some turned out to be kinda creepy/stalkerish. One potential guy I was giddy to meet but in the end, it turned me off from craigslist. He seemed too good to be true in the beginning: respectful, fairly in shape, non-clingy, able to carry a convo, interesting. While scanning the m4w casual encounters section, I came across an ad with his photo but with different age and location details. For the following few days, he continued to post, changing his age/location each time.
The conclusion that I came to after my experiences with craigslist is that it's a waste of time. Too many flakes, creeps, fakes, spam. When ridiculously horny, don't rely on craigslist.
Well Craiglist does not have any of that anymore, good thing they cleaned that up, they need to clean it up some more, and stop leting people flag people. Craigslist is a big joke now.
I have met tons of girls on CL for NSA sex.. Sure it takes a little work and time but doesn't everything.
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For Casual sex I just go to LAxOutcall.com With the artificial poon-shortage there is a real market for working girls in LA
that is exactly the reason prostitutes are necessary in any society.
women are extremely selective about casual sex partners. they have such high standards that most men just cannot meet. im not blaming them, its their preference.
but i hope society acknowledges this uneven playing field and start accepting paid sex as a normal sexual outlet for single men, as long as they dont settle down.
As a gay male, I firmly believe that Josh, your poster-by gay, needs a man-to-man. Josh apparently thinks that if both he and his HIV+, it's OK to Bareback. He's dead wrong. A HIV virus accurately replicates itself about 2/3 of the time. The other 1/3 are mutants. As a result HIV comes in thousands of different strains. Josh did not reveal which meds he uses to control his HIV, but every time he barebacks with someone else, he invites all sorts of weird HIV strains into his body - strains that are either immune to his meds, or strains that produce med-resistant strains. He passes his lethal cocktail of HIV strains on to every man he barebacks. I am also confused about Josh's "committed" relationship with his boyfriend. How can you be "committed" if you are cheating all the time? Does Josh's "committed" boy friend know what's going on? Maybe Josh's behavior is a the real reason his partner is not "in the mood." I don't care how drop dead gorgeous Josh is. I wouldn't have sex with him even if he were the last gay man on earth. Man up, Josh. Right now, you are as a great a threat to the gay community as homophobic maniac running around with a Glock .40.
Going on CL is like playing Russian Roulette, but it's essentially no different than any other dating site or off line dating these days. As for finding someone online: on Match.com and other sites people post old photos, lie about their age (to show up in younger age boxes in searches), lie about their weight, height, relationship status, job, income, education, you name it.
One recent study showed that 1/3 of people on dating sites are attached: married or in a committed relationship and so obviously should not have an active profile.
Then there are the weirdos, the violent, the STD infected, the addicts (sex, booze, drugs, food, gambling). And if you get around to that first awkward coffeedate: there are the ones on or off their meds, the stoned ones, the ones with bad banners, the ones with body odor and bad breath, the bad dressers, and so on.
Everyone is Facebooking and Googling prospective dates to dig up dirt or just to check out info - some even pay for a background check. But a background check or a a Google search most likely will not tell you if a man/woman is a psycho, a serial cheater, has a spouse and two kids somewhere, has STDs, is on meds, etc.
So boys and girls: it's a total crap shoot. Have fun!
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Pure nastiness, feel for you. I believe there is a way that Google can remove such illegally posted pictures.
A lot of dating sites are stealing pics from sites like craigslist to set up fake profiles so contact google and ask them for help if c/l cant
you make some valid points about that guy Josh. it's one thing to be horny and want to get your nut off and an entirely different thing to be dishonest with your supposed "partner". i am guilty of occasionally reading some of the ads on CL, but all i can think of is that with my luck i will wander into some kind of set up or scam and return home with nothing but a filed police report. when it comes to sex on the internet, if it looks too good to be true, it nearly always ends up being so in reality. do these folks really believe this is the way grown ups arrange to have sex with one another? as with anything else in life, if you want something worthwhile it almost always requires that you invest some time and more than likely a bit of effort and dare i say it - hard work. there are no shortcuts unless you are the one in a million that wins the lotto. and even those people can end up miserable!
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