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01/23/2012 5:03:00 AM
my 17 yr. old daughter chooses to live on the streets and it seems no matter what I do or who in this capital city of Sacramento thinks, She is my world... I worry without ceasing and pray the same that it doesn't take tragedy to bring her back home to me where she is safe and warm... God give all you kids on the street running from and to strength... oft at times it seems soo many people don't care but know that there are many that do... I am a mother who does... prayers be with You and God too!!!
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ENUFF 12/28/2011 7:48:00 PM
RIP Raven!!!!!
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Lynb362002 10/17/2011 12:30:00 PM
Very sad. I want to see Dyanne Cannon's movie now.
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Sketari 10/14/2011 1:34:00 AM
A complete 360? So he ended back up where he was?
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09/21/2011 4:25:00 PM
sad
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09/15/2011 11:18:00 AM
With all respect to the story, this is as much about domestic [terrorism] violence than anything, though i found this article to be well-written and moving.
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Bri 02/28/2011 1:08:00 PM
Why?
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Bridafee 02/28/2011 1:07:00 PM
Good God does anybody take responsibility for contraception? You need a license for a dog, any fucken twat can have a baby, that poor kid & the millions around the world just like her.! As a broke single Mom reading that story horrifies me on soo many levels, I can't wait for my little girl to get out of school today so I can hold her close.
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Bridafee 02/28/2011 1:00:00 PM
REALLY?
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Friasmercedes 01/07/2011 10:59:00 PM
Its coming up on four years now and I still can not stop thinking about you. All I think about is all the special times we had and more that we could have enjoyed if we did not go our separate ways. I blame myself for being so selfish and letting you leave to spend nights in the cold, in the dark streets where there were so many people but deep down inside, I know you were all alone. Remember how I always wanted to be like you, you were so gifted, smart and talented and the most beautiful person seen through my eyes. I hated you, but I knew inside that hate was much strong because really it was love.Love from a little sister who wanted to be there because you hated to see me cry and you felt like you needed to be the strong one. Because of you I promise to succeed and never put my head down because this is what you have taught me. I love you Alyssa you are with me everywhere I am and I will never let you go.
R.I.P Alyssa Gomez aka (Raven)
June .4. 2007
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Nones 09/26/2010 2:03:00 AM
I was hoping it was going to be Raven-Simone....
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Marina Grandbois 09/15/2010 10:25:00 PM
from an ex-street kid, to one that will remain beautiful and young forever, the pain is real, and sometimes you make it out. I did.. that could have been me, but now I am a mother, a wife, an educated woman. But those memories, are right there underneath. The streets of Hollywood mar forever... To Blackie, Kitty, Starr and Raven and so many others who never made it as far as I did... RIP.
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jaydee 09/04/2010 3:42:00 AM
I see not much has changed since the 60's in Hollywood. Sounds like the street scene I was intimately familiar with in the late 60's and the early 70's. I saw several similar tragedies back then when I used to hang out on Hollywood Blvd.
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L.Pappas 08/13/2010 12:46:00 AM
I can recall all too well living by my wits and wits alone at the same age as Raven. And although I was a male, looking back, being 13, 14, 15 without ever knowing which girlfriends - And I'm using the term 'girlfriend' in a charitable manner - girlfriend's home I'd be sleeping at if I slept at all was, in hindsight, a terrible tragedy. A recipe for nothing short of a disaster waiting to happen.
How was it that Raven's parents allowed their child to live under such circumstances? Did they not worry about their daughter possibly being raped? Murdered? Both? Apparently not thus ending another story of a child who, with a bit of nurturing and non-glamourizing of 'da hood' lifestyle. Shame on both her mother, who in affect might as well have been a petri dish and her father - a pipette for all he was worth. Boooooo!
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tellyou1nce 08/07/2010 8:06:00 AM
Sophie 01/12/2010 8:43:53 PM..your comment was stupid and deranged. i know you. you never met dyan. do you need an ego boost? you are a fake.. a pitifull nail tech that i worked with. i'm glad you were fired. none of us thought your stories about 'the comment sections' were very funny... we thought you needed help and we still do... get a life!
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Stephanie Potter-Tavarez 07/21/2010 11:03:00 AM
Hey I met Raven when she was 12. Its funny cuz we all thought she was like 16 or 17. She was so mature for her age. It all still seems unreal because Raven was the type who would disappear and rumors would spread that she had died but then she would just pop up and all our fears would be instantly relieved. I guess Im still waiting for her to reappear in so many ways. I wouldn't even be mad. I would just laugh it off. Man i miss her. I remember the last time i saw her it was the night before she died. I was waiting for the bus stop with her on Bronson and Hollywood Blvd. We were waiting for the 180 bus to glendale. Then the next day rumors spread that she had died. I couldn't believe it. I was like "naaaahhh. its just another rumor. I was just with her last night." My heart aches to even think about such young beauty taken away by a piece of s**t like the guy who killed her. She will truly be missed. I guess the satisfaction that i get is that #1: i had the honor and privilege to know and be close to such a remarkable girl and #2: that the scumbag who so nonchalantly took her away from us is serving 110 years for what he did. I hope he rots in hell. Raven...if only u could see how many people miss and love u now. Maybe...just maybe.....in some ways u already do. I love u girl. :-) (lol u always hated those smiley faces)
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Rose 07/20/2010 12:49:00 AM
Wow, this really touched me so. Many years ago there was an teenager that run away from home and she was 15 years old. She came from out of state, where I didn't know. But she got involved with a young man, that used her and abuse her for sex. He didn't let her call her mother only when he said she can. But one day my 12 years old son, told me that she was across the street in the park. She was thrown out because she didn't want to have sex with this young man, anymore. So, it was raining bad, and she was getting wet. My son told me mom she's going to get sick or something bad is going to happen to her if she stay out there. Because we lived in a bad nieghborhood. Anyway, I felt so bad for her so, I decided to take her in, I am not that kind of person to let anyone come into my home. But she was 15 years old and hungry and homeless plus along. I took her in and talked to her to see why she left home. She told me that her mother remarried and she didn't get along with her stepdad. I ask her if her stepdad ever tried anything with her she said "no". She did tell me that she had regrets of leaving home and she wanted to go back, but her mother moved and she forgot the number her ex-boyfriend had it but he wouldn't give it to her. So, I confronted this young man and told him that if he didn't give her her mother's new telephone number, I will call the police on him. But the 15 years old girl didn't want any trouble. But I made it clear to the young man, again and this time. I wasn't so nice! So, he give up the number and she called her mom, I found these nice group of people to help with the tickets to get her home to her mom. Before she left I told her to finish school, and don't runaway! She told me she won't. Before she left I told her to give me a call, so I know she made it home safely. So she did.
To bad that Raven, didn't get the help when she first hit the streets, maybe her life would of ended differently.
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kelly 05/25/2010 7:49:00 AM
This young lady led such a tragic life. But there are teens just like her in all the touristy places from NYC to TX and other parts of CA. Its sad that she yearned for love from ppl who did not love her (her mom and dad) and just used her as a pawn in their power struggle. Can u imagine being 12, scared, on the streets hungry and alone? I can! It could have happened to me. By the grace of God it just could have been me. My mother was a brutal drunk who threw me out of the house twice at age 11 and 12. I remember being forced to go to the store at age 11, in pitch darkness by myself. I could have been kidnapped, raped or killed, my mom didnt care. To this day, I am glad she is dead. I thank God I had a dad who care but he left me (died) when I was 14. My life took a downward spiral at that age, but I hung in there and graduated from high school and college. Praise be unto God Almighty.
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Stitch 05/23/2010 3:44:00 PM
RAVEN WAS AN AMAZING PERSON!!!! SHE WAS SMART, BEAUTIFUL AND THE PERFECT FRIEND. SHE WAS LOVED AND KNOWN BY EVERYONE!!! WE ALL LOVE AND MISS YOU RAVEN!!! R.I.P. RAVEN, JUNE 4, 2007!!!!!
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Briann 04/21/2010 12:47:00 AM
I have to comment on the word "noir". This kind of glamorization of hollywood and californication and crime and the horrors of being a child growing up on the streets. Let's please try hard not to glamorize this tragic tragic life. Hollywood could take the forefront in this fight.
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Devlin 04/12/2010 3:08:00 PM
to raven:
hey love, its coming up on three years since your death. i can't believe its been that long. i spent a long time wondering what i could have done, if not being there had a hand in your being ripped from our lives so early. do you remember when you couldn't talk to anyone but me, let anyone hold you but me? i can sometimes go for days without allowing the darkest thoughts to take over my mind, but, they always come back, one way or another. im finished being angry, but can't seem to hand out my forgiveness. i just wish everyone could have known you, loved you, laughed with you. yes, you were fiercely independent and strong, and no matter what people think they know, they never got the chance to see you through my eyes...what a pity. i wanted to tell you how sorry i am for not following through on the promise i made to you about rachel. i hope you can forgive me. your forever in my heart and on my shoulder. i love you always.
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ArgotMay 01/29/2010 3:45:00 AM
I wonder what the best and safest online forum (place to share), for young men/women like these might look like?
I'd love a mass survey of kids' beliefs, wishes, fears, etc.
Kids ROCK 4 EVER.
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Sophie 01/13/2010 7:43:00 AM
As someone who is temporarily relocated to Las Vegas to film a similar type of dcumentary (I'm based in LA), I can tell you that MANY of the people we film are willing to receive help but offering rehab isn't the way out for them because they ALWAYS refuse that at the beginning. Seems to me that Dyan (and I met her a few years ago when I dated a celebrity she knows well) was more concerned with getting them on tape than really helping. Taking her dogs with her was a very bad mistake. It only showed those kids how some dogs have what they don't have. How insensitive! It shows that Dyan, even after filming so much, is still out of touch with reality - these kids' daily reality. Her own priviledged life is in the way of getting the true story exposed here, I think. Although, maybe poor Raven died to teach her a valuable lesson. I hope it is learned.
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Matthew 10/14/2009 10:46:00 AM
In hopes this comment reaches the author of this well written article. I was a friend of Raven's, Kat knows me well. I want to know if her murderer was brought to justice, or if there is any update on that end of things. To all the people who wish to inflame or call names, or insult the street kids, You do not know us. I have luckily moved on, but I am one of the lucky ones. It is jerks like you that make people lose hope in the first place, and although the final decision is ours alone, it is seeing the lack of care that drives us closer towards that edge.
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Georgian Who Cares. 07/13/2008 9:22:00 AM
I recently went on a mission trip to Hollywood, where half of my group when to My Friend's Place and volunteered. That night one of the workers from there came and spoke to use about the horror of teen homelessness. She spoke of Raven. I would like to point out that she was not a prostitute, but yet she preformed survival sex. There is a difference between the two. Many of these teens have been through so much, and places like My Friend's Place are so amazing for these kids. They are a safe haven. While there are many daily programs that these people can go to, there are not many night programs, which leads to teens having survival sex. All of the people who speak badly of her should go and see what people go through. Many people think of Hollywood as a wonderful and fancy place, which I do not think is so. If you just walked down Skid Roe then your idea would change completely. This wonderful girl was murdered, and you can't do anything but spit on her memory. If you only knew what she went through and others like her are going through, I think you would hold you tongue. You will probably never quite grasp sleeping on the streets, not having a meal. Even though I never knew her, she is an inspiration to me, and to many others.
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Gideon 07/02/2008 11:56:00 AM
I think the article was very interesting, however, the author's descriptions of Raven were sparse. There was not one adjective written to let the reader imagine Raven's expressions, or her tone of voice, the color of her eyes or skin, or her overall demeanor. Other than the fact that she was cutting "on her arm," spoken in true street venacular, and that she dressed in Goth-black attire, we get a very limited mental picture of Raven.
We also go from Raven being at a party with Joel Avelar Eliseo, to Raven - dead - in a bedspread.
Did this poor little girl know her killer before encountering him on the way to that party with Joel? Did he coerce or threaten her into coming up to the room with him or did she go because of her hunger for more meth?
The main point, I am starting to think, is more about Dyan Cannon's documentary than it is about Raven's short, tragic life.
This is still Hollywood, after all.
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charles 06/29/2008 12:43:00 PM
Lazy/shallow journalism, no better than a straight-to-video flick. I didn't know R., but deserves whole lot better. Some folks like straight-to-videos...
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lucero torres 06/27/2008 7:35:00 AM
this is truee !
[[�One of the reasons that I started to make this movie was to inspire and show people you don�t have to go to Africa or dark parts of any country to find horror stories, or kids that need help,� she says.
�The kids in our own backyard need help. Now the film has taken on a different perspective because, who knew? But I hope when kids see the movie, or when everybody sees the movie, it helps them to make choices about their life and how the wrong choice can have a ripple effect on so many.� ]]
i really like this part !cause ppl never realize how dangerous EVERYWHERE is !
i understand dat ppl can be like this but then going overboard nd ppl helping them they should realize that u jus gotta move on! nd think RIGHT!
u CAN get ur life back on track; you gotta believe in it nd think about it well enough! life is not all about having it perfect; its about learning from it! god gave u this apportunity to see it; live it; nd have it! they say we all gotta 'survive' but relly you just gotta go along by doing da rite thing, it dnt last long. appreciate it..forreals!
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Lauren 06/26/2008 1:33:00 AM
Reminds me of...
http://www.laweekly.com/news/news/murder-in-a-santa-monica-squat/6413/
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ESTRELLA 06/25/2008 11:48:00 PM
yes raven was the greatest person but hey im was bothered by the way .last time i saw her was in hollywood she was waiting for the bus going to glendale yeah had shorthair/she will be missed?y it took a year to write it she died last year june 2007
RIP
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Todd 06/25/2008 11:47:00 PM
Good article.
As a resident that passes these kids everyday (I live near Hollywood/Bronson) I can tell you that the shelters and services offered are both the savior and the lure for these kids. There's a reason they're in Hollywood - more access to foot traffic (money), more services (free clinics, several shelters), more access to drugs (for buying, trading, selling), and more people their age. Add in the fact that Hollywood is still one step from a slum in most parts, and that the other areas chase them away (Beverly Hills drives them straight to Hollywood), and you have tragedy in the making.
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mark cook 06/25/2008 10:56:00 PM
raven was a very good friend of mine im happy to see excellent journalism on her. i miss you raven but i will never forget you
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STAR 06/25/2008 10:52:00 PM
I DID NOT LIKE HOW U WROTE ABOUT RAVEN U MADE SEEM LIKE SHE WAS BAD PERSON HOW U SAY SHE WAS PROSTITUTE :IT ALL COME S BACK 2 U I HOPE U LEARN FROM IT RAVEN WAS BEAUTIFUL AND SMART AND FUNNY LOVIN: SHE WASNT PERFECT SHE WAS CHILD GOD SAKES SHE MAY LOOKED OLDER.WE ARENT PERFECT IN THIS WORLD.
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mercedes 06/24/2008 10:32:00 PM
alyssa the best person i ever knew the person who has changed my life forever the bestest friend and so much more i luv u and will always be thinking about u no matter wat
rip:alyssa
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berry 06/24/2008 7:41:00 AM
Please consider using false names for the protection of the youth associated and trying to cope with street trauma?
With fear of retribution prevalent in the adult sited in this article, why would the same courtesy not be shown to the youth; especially those who declined your interview?
And I reference
'Brittany (not her real name, which she asked L.A.Weekly not to use for fear of retribution)'
'Joel Avelar Eliseo (who, crying at the preliminary hearing for Raven�s alleged murderer, Gilton Pitre, later tearfully refused to talk to the Weekly)
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Rene 06/23/2008 12:16:00 PM
I want to say that after reading everyone's wonderful and horrible comments to this article.....I think that the continuation of OUR silence about such systematic problems is was continues to keep this problem on our streets. If it means that I have "risked" stating my name, then so be it because if one steps forward...others will too.
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Rene Frescas 06/23/2008 11:45:00 AM
TO Christine Pelisek,
I was Alyssa's CASA worker and new as a child from Hollygrove. After she initally ran away...I would go see her and meet with her at the corner Tommy's, to try and get her to turn herself in. I also found potential foster parents for her, but because of religious differences, they refused. I am a social worker and left my job recently to work with the homeless. I used to work for Homes for Life Foundation that house emancipated foster youth....but the real struggle is getting the system to change and get publicity. I inguired to the LAPD, City Council, etc...and no response. They said it is not my legal business.
Well I thank you for putting my mind to rest about her and others. There are so many others that I work/worked with in her situation and want to use Alyssa's life as a message to stop....her little sister mostly.
love
Rene Frescas
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Rene 06/23/2008 11:39:00 AM
I forgot to say that I have a song I wrote for her. She had a copy with her...A CD. I also met Jimmy and talk about how I wanted her to get back into the system and get her to sing!!!
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gail gordon 06/23/2008 9:01:00 AM
This is a very important subject that needs our attention. Thank you for sharing this story with your readers. May she rest in peace.
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Understood 06/23/2008 5:41:00 AM
I felt this story. I used to be one these kids back in the 80's and turned my entire world around. Does anyone know where she is buried?
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jesse 06/22/2008 4:12:00 AM
raven was my little sister, not by blood but in every other way, my beat friend her death affected everyone, i am so thankful that her story is out for people to know becaues i only care abotu my boyfriend and baby more than her. R.I.P. raven youll forever be missed.
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skittles 06/22/2008 3:07:00 AM
I just want to say Raven was a bueaty in real life not only by her looks but also her personality. She was a caring and loving person who would have given you the shirt right off her back if you needed it. She was a true friend i should know i used to live with her out on the streets. I also want to just say thank you for talking about Hollywood the way it really is a dark place where even good people get lost.
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Susan 06/22/2008 2:17:00 AM
An excellent reportage of the street horrors to which many young people are subjected in the process of escaping home horrors. Breaking free is hard and as your story indicates some are able to use those incredible survival skills to get the grounded lives they deserve.
Read my blog for info on dealing with the pain: http://therapistoflastresort.typepad.com/
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Rev/Mrs Diana Holliday 06/21/2008 11:02:00 PM
Thank you for sharing Raven's story.
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Dustin Newcombe 06/21/2008 10:01:00 PM
This is one of the most powerful examples of journalism I have read recently.
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LA Weekly Reader 06/21/2008 8:53:00 PM
What does it mean Third World
Sao Paulo? Is LA Second World
or what?
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Peter Del Valle 06/21/2008 3:51:00 PM
I am outraged that registered sex offenders are even allowed to live in our communities. I've been an adovacate of sex offender colonies for many years, and now you see that if such a colony existed, Raven would be alive.
Please refer to soretra.50webs.com for more information.
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Two Counselors from Hollygrove 06/21/2008 5:53:00 AM
Take the real tragedy of this runaway from two people who really knew Alyssa, not her alter ego Raven. My good friend and I knew Alyssa when she lived at Hollygrove. We were the counselors in her cottage. Alyssa wrote several dark and heart hurting poems to release the pain caused by her parents. We knew Alyssa's smiles and her running down the hall to show us something she had made or did. She was an individual and a style of her own. We were with Alyssa the day she arrived to us and the day that she left us. I invite the author of this article to contact Us by my email and we will give you a different view of this tragedy and teenager than the world would have never known if she had not been killed. I invite you to know the girl as we do, love her for her not her tragedy. ToBImmortalThruU@aol.com
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josh ickovic 06/21/2008 2:31:00 AM
Wow... great story. what a tragedy. some people cannot be saved from their own self-destructive nature. Individualy, we who have knowledge, strength, and love, try our best to help those in need. Her existence- life and death- was meant as a lesson to us all. Whatever it is you get from it. What a beautiful struggle this life.
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hellokevin11 06/20/2008 11:06:00 PM
More trash for the trash can.
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reading comprehension 06/20/2008 7:48:00 PM
Drew, did you happen to miss the whole part about Cannon begging Raven to go to rehab but her refusing? Or maybe the part about Cannon's friend taking in Jimmy?
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Anon 06/20/2008 7:20:00 PM
The world mourns at the loss of a depressed emo jerk?
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goodriddance 06/20/2008 5:08:00 PM
I am the king of goth. We feel nothing for another crappy depressed poetic-kid death.
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rb 06/20/2008 5:07:00 PM
A sad, tragic story, but I can't help but wonder how a homeless teen has a myspace page filled with photos that she kept regularly updated.
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LA Weekly Reader 06/20/2008 4:59:00 PM
So... in the last page they say that Jimmy made a 360. Doesn't that mean he's looking back the way he started? O.o I think she meant he made a 180.
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DS 06/20/2008 4:29:00 PM
Very sad, but great article. Thanks for publishing this.
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haresh 06/20/2008 4:14:00 PM
hello.
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haresh 06/20/2008 4:08:00 PM
ja;jd;j
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Djen 06/20/2008 3:21:00 PM
Damn kids and their wacky trends.
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Drew 06/20/2008 3:08:00 PM
so "hollywood" finds a homeless 12 year old and instead of, i dont know maybe bringing her to a shelter or helping her find a place to stay, they decide to film her and give her a myspace account? and now she's dead. bravo pretentious film maker person, bravo.
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none 06/20/2008 3:08:00 PM
dont encourage gothy teenagers
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John thomas 06/20/2008 2:08:00 PM
Pretty sad. She did look like a real cutie!
JT
http://www.FireMe.To/udi
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nicole 06/20/2008 1:37:00 AM
I agree--a great piece. But, Raven did not choose her path. Unfortunately, tragically, her mother and her community failed her. This is horribly sad and disturbing. The question is, what's next? What, as a community, will we do to help these kids and help other victims of blight in and around Los Angeles?
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Pia Zi 06/19/2008 9:58:00 PM
Wow....excellent journalism. I used to do street evangelism in Holywood years ago.........things have perhaps gotten more dangerous for kids on the streets. The real tragedy is that they (Raven)chose that path..self-love was absent, and this lead to placing herself in compromising situations. Good for Diane Cannon(as she used to spell her name); her documentary is sure to provoke youth toward looking at the reality of street life!